tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post5621666266416343003..comments2023-12-20T21:47:22.313-08:00Comments on life realized: Being Too Nice Contributes to DepressionElzbieta http://www.blogger.com/profile/11702184929007328337noreply@blogger.comBlogger42125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-78318623318368599842019-03-24T05:11:34.771-07:002019-03-24T05:11:34.771-07:00interesting conclusion. maybe it is because a nice...interesting conclusion. maybe it is because a nice person not themselvessante quotidiennehttp://santequotidienne.zohosites.eu/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-5268295562992635842018-04-11T19:59:49.466-07:002018-04-11T19:59:49.466-07:00Thanks for your great and helpful presentation I l...Thanks for your great and helpful presentation I like your good service.I always appreciate your post. Excellent information on your blog, thank you for taking the time to share with us.I’m really amazed with your posting skills as well as with the layout on your blog site.<br />severe depressionhttp://www.panaceapgx.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-74926108504155070402018-03-28T06:23:05.320-07:002018-03-28T06:23:05.320-07:00Such an amazing blog... I never ever had seen earl...Such an amazing blog... I never ever had seen earlier... I really like the way you share ...Thanks for sharing with us.. Shanayahttp://www.cijik.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-13201402714973634122017-07-04T21:24:34.001-07:002017-07-04T21:24:34.001-07:00Thank you for sharing such wonderful information! ...Thank you for sharing such wonderful information! Keep a healthy life by consuming healthy food and doing exercise regularly. <br /><br /><br /><br />Medical Jobs Australiahttp://www.medicaljobsaustralia.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-70918708359565227642017-05-16T16:38:40.347-07:002017-05-16T16:38:40.347-07:00This article sums up my perspective at the moment....This article sums up my perspective at the moment. Today I realized I needed to forgive myself, that a lot of my issues are not entirely my fault. Like most, I wasn't given a fair start in life, and childhood trauma, surrounding negativity and dysfunction, abuse, and neglect has a domino-like or cascading effect on later problems in life. Problems which you end up blaming yourself for, which might feed into your low self esteem that really originated in childhood. We have to break the cycles of abuse by healing and understanding. I find I project my unmet childhood needs onto others as an adult too much, as in, I am too nice, too focused on others, to caring and wanting to please others. That is a bad habit linked to childhood self esteem issues. While many people would look at me and my life and be very jealous and not understand how I can be so 'lucky' in life and feel depressed, so they might see me as simply conceited or ungrateful. But depression's plagued me since childhood, severely, and while I've healed a lot, I've still some more to go. It's not something so easy to snap out of and completely rewire your brain/mind around to a better way. I've also heard depression is anger turned inwards. But most importantly, we need to have forgiveness. I just found this blog and the title really appeals to me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-40132244729839158482017-01-15T16:11:09.622-08:002017-01-15T16:11:09.622-08:00This sounds like me. What actions did you take on ...This sounds like me. What actions did you take on your road to change? I feel stuck not knowing how to improve myself and to finally figure out me and what I want for a change.Sarahnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-64802097094545212132017-01-07T17:10:00.210-08:002017-01-07T17:10:00.210-08:00Hi admin,
I really like it, I have also a blog whi...Hi admin,<br />I really like it, I have also a blog which is related with you, which is about anxiety depression disorder.<br />Many people seem to be born with the disorder because it surfaces at such an early period of their lives.<br />Depending on how troubled an individual is, the condition might make normal thought processes impossible.<br /><a href="http://www.awkwardlysocial.co" rel="nofollow">anxiety depression disorder</a><br /><br /><br /><br />Thanks,<br /><br />uzzaluzzalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13032758306824906737noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-40753065825962041362016-05-01T09:31:23.348-07:002016-05-01T09:31:23.348-07:00Described me to a T... Great Advice.Described me to a T... Great Advice.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09824434861079405838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-42256825059453335082016-05-01T09:30:11.171-07:002016-05-01T09:30:11.171-07:00Described me to a T... Great Advice.Described me to a T... Great Advice.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09824434861079405838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-39340192416441103842016-03-11T13:28:39.133-08:002016-03-11T13:28:39.133-08:00Great post, told my wife years ago that she was to...Great post, told my wife years ago that she was to Nice, she read your blog and now she really understands my point, she is getting better at it every day. ThanksAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03144873982258732312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-70027513956223219522016-03-10T10:25:01.171-08:002016-03-10T10:25:01.171-08:00absoulutly inspiring it has opened my eyes I have ...absoulutly inspiring it has opened my eyes I have bought your book can I just ask did you have any withdrawel from medication xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-59880524184391642582015-12-29T09:32:03.786-08:002015-12-29T09:32:03.786-08:00True and more common than we expect.Thanks.True and more common than we expect.Thanks.lavidarealhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16797079928393800220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-44380659438445474102015-09-19T22:53:55.380-07:002015-09-19T22:53:55.380-07:00i read this post today, i started crying. I have...i read this post today, i started crying. I have never told these things to anyone in my entire life. I thought i was the only one who thinks like this. Thanks for sharing. This page made me happy today after a really long time. <br />God Bless you. <br />akhilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11520191886844049896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-9282218290133701162015-09-09T01:21:45.129-07:002015-09-09T01:21:45.129-07:00I just wanted to say that at my age 39 I have spen...I just wanted to say that at my age 39 I have spent my whole life wishing my mother would recognise how her selfishness affected her children. She has never and she is ur age. I salute you for realising it is never too late to try! I have battled with depression my whole life so I know the intense stuggle. The fact that you acknowledge you hold the key to ur own happiness means you will succeed in finding a way to deal with it. U hold the key and I wish you all the positivity in the world to help you a long. I salute you :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-64710558569122007022015-07-24T09:25:04.104-07:002015-07-24T09:25:04.104-07:00Thank you Anonymous from Japan! l'm very glad ...Thank you Anonymous from Japan! l'm very glad my article was translated to Japanese and French. lf anyone wants to share them with friends that don't speak English here are the links: <br />(Japanease) http://tabi-labo.com/157678/being-too-nice/<br />(French) http://sain-et-naturel.com/voici-pourquoi-etre-trop-gentil-peut-causer-la-depression.html<br /><br /><br />Elzbieta https://www.blogger.com/profile/11702184929007328337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-42934647103784473522015-07-24T07:44:05.370-07:002015-07-24T07:44:05.370-07:00Hello Elzbieta
I from Japan.(Sorry for my bad i...Hello Elzbieta<br /><br /> I from Japan.(Sorry for my bad inglish)<br /> I am in treating depression now.It is such severe. So many times I wanted to suicide.Recently, I have fond your websit. I just want to say that, thank you so much for excellent websit ,I love it. I belive your websit will help so many people. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-66844988201178847362015-07-21T03:35:25.686-07:002015-07-21T03:35:25.686-07:00So is it really that simple? All we have to do is ...So is it really that simple? All we have to do is provide our bodies with an abundance of these vitamins & minerals and our depression will suddenly vanish? We just eat the right foods, take the right supplements, and we're cured, just like that? To some degree, yes.Bu zhong Yi qi wanhttp://buzhongyiqiwan.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-56062565814542198172015-07-12T18:05:51.216-07:002015-07-12T18:05:51.216-07:00No not at all. l do appreciate credits and the lin...No not at all. l do appreciate credits and the link to my website. Your website looks great btw. :) Elzbieta https://www.blogger.com/profile/11702184929007328337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-13787590554331120182015-07-12T09:46:11.036-07:002015-07-12T09:46:11.036-07:00Terrific post. I've taken the liberty of shari...Terrific post. I've taken the liberty of sharing this to my own blog, with full credits to you, of course :-) , I hope you don't mind. Many thanks<br />https://shamazen.wordpress.com/being-too-nice-contributes-to-depression/Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07043053326636850217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-69904742992439089402015-07-06T10:53:30.446-07:002015-07-06T10:53:30.446-07:00Thank you for sharing your story! I also have had ...Thank you for sharing your story! I also have had similar situations. I recently had to tell a friend to "f" off because she is dealing with too many of her own issues. I was always there for her, but she could not be bothered when I really needed a simple favor from her. I keep learning and growing! It's hard sometimes, but I love me more now than ever before. I hope to use my own experiences to help others as I learn and grow more in grad school for counseling this fall. :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-87683062193097617182015-07-06T10:11:48.385-07:002015-07-06T10:11:48.385-07:00Can't thank you enough for this! :D :')
I ...Can't thank you enough for this! :D :')<br />I have been struggling since 11 years to BE ME!!!<br />Today, when I read your article, trust me,I could LITERALLY feel you because I have been in this position , still am but now I know how to bring out the best in me.<br />All thanks to you ma'am :')<br />Keep inspiring and lifting up depressed spirits!<br />May God be with you and bless you always :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-436868191795279002015-07-03T16:19:21.838-07:002015-07-03T16:19:21.838-07:00Besides from rape and abuse its all me..miss
Elzbi...Besides from rape and abuse its all me..miss<br />Elzbieta u have found peace in yourself but i am still figuring it out. But i dont know how to start??Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-11659967897178955102015-07-03T02:18:52.725-07:002015-07-03T02:18:52.725-07:00Super glad to hear that Lina! You deserve to feel ...Super glad to hear that Lina! You deserve to feel good... ;)Elzbieta https://www.blogger.com/profile/11702184929007328337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-41256110253004054702015-07-03T01:42:31.596-07:002015-07-03T01:42:31.596-07:00I've recently found your blog and I am SO GLAD...I've recently found your blog and I am SO GLAD I can't tell you... From sentence to sentence I am just wowed. I feel like you were in my head, writing thoughts...And writing just what I desperately need to hear. And It really makes me feel so much better reading this. Thank you. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05983753055560890668noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8239421562197651268.post-77950182075497191022015-07-01T23:32:24.299-07:002015-07-01T23:32:24.299-07:00Wow! This is my life! It's good to know that...Wow! This is my life! It's good to know that there are others out there who feel the same.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14000945411771405515noreply@blogger.com